Christian Perspective on Death EGP Blog post from May 26, 2007

It REALLY hurts to see a close friend or relative die. It spurs something deep inside you that says, “It’s not supposed to be like this… One minute my world was ‘normal’ and the next…unbearable…” Things like this make everything else seem…small…and…insignificant…

You may get angry with God…questioning Him…and even questioning your faith…wondering where God is during all of this. But I assure you…God…is…love!!! () And He’s big enough to handle your questions! ()

In John 11 we read about Jesus and Lazarus. Lazarus was a great friend of Jesus. He was even referred to as “the one [Jesus] love[d]”. () He became very sick and then died. Mary, Lazarus’ sister, met with Jesus and said “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” () Jesus told her “I AM the Resurrection and the Life. Those who believe in Me, even though they die like everyone else, will live again. They are given eternal life for believing in Me and will never perish.” ()

Martha went to Mary, her sister, and told her that Jesus wanted to see her. She came…RUNNING…fell at His feet and cried out the same words as her sister. “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” () When He saw her and the others weeping…He was torn inside…and began to weep too.

You repeatedly heard that they are “in a better place” and that you should “remember the good times.” Though that may be true, it doesn’t always offer comfort. I am jealous when I think about Christian friends and family not having to deal with pain…or especially bills. But to be honest, I miss them…and that hurts…

See, Jesus wept when He saw how much Lazarus’ death hurt his sisters, and I believe He weeps for those affected by the loss of a loved one. Because of that, Christ’s preparing a place for those of us who have put our trust in Him where this kind of stuff will never happen again. Christ has victory over death and this is NOT our home!!! Every tear will be wiped away and we will spend eternity in the Father and Son’s presence! We won’t even need the sun anymore, because THEY will be our Light!

tells us that, “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by confessing with your mouth that you are saved.”

All of that to say…yeah…it hurts. It’s okay to hurt…and knowing the truth isn’t going to make it not hurt. However, our hope is in the resurrection! If you have put your trust in Christ, then you too will see your Christian loved ones again…and better than ever! Our hope is in knowing that we’ll be in the presence of the Father and Son for eternity, where none of this happens! And THAT is the hope for which we are to be ready to explain!!! ()

There is a wonderful metaphor God has given us in the Bible to better understand all of this:

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